Willing
Wanting whines; Willing works!
How willing am I?
Well, that depends. How much will I be inconvenienced?
Often this is the question that comes in hot! I’d instead tell myself and everyone around me that I’m trying, I mean REALLY trying!
This statement, of course, allows me to remain “off the hook,” giving me a sense of comfort and familiarity.
Most importantly, if there is too much of an inconvenience, I can use my fallback on how hard I TRIED!
Waiting until everything is comfortable and easy means I’m never starting something that I want to do. Weathering the storm of inconveniences as I go forward, follow through and persevere. Worth the effort.
Inconvenient at times. Imperative that I believe in myself. Important to keep my eye on the prize through small daily steps. Illusion that I need to have it all figured out. Integrating my wants and ability to make them happen.
Learning to be aware of what takes up my time to make more informed decisions. Leaning into willingness and how that’s different than trying. Language that I use with myself matters.
Leading with willingness offers me more positive options. Life gives me ample opportunities to practice willingness. Lessons from everyday experiences teach me the value of being willing to make mistakes. Live and let live gives me the willingness to be free of self.
Intentions are vital and work best when there’s also action taking place. Instant results don’t happen and I give up. Instead I’m willing to put in the time and effort for my journey which will eventually happen. I believe in ME!
Now I am willing because I am sick and tired of being sick and tired; ready to show up and do what it takes. Notebook filled with hopes and dreams;it’s time to “do” life! Nothing changes if nothing changes.
Getting in the arena vs sitting on the sidelines. Going forward and willing to do what it takes. Giving myself opportunities to show up; this is often the hardest part!
Discover. Uncover. Recover.
How often do I get stuck in wanting?
Often. I sincerely WANT things to happen in my life, so I TRY my hardest! I finally realize why certain things don't happen; I am UNWILLING. I have no desire to go through any discomfort, inconvenience, or aggravation.
It's exciting to talk about new possibilities; making them happen is another story. Sometimes I fold like a lawn chair when I realize what's required. Being willing will take me far.
Wise Weekly Words We Heard
willingness + action = change
when I insert the word willing for the word want it changes everything
willingness is a choice
I have more time on my hands now that I’m not constantly thinking if others will think I’m cool
When there is something I really want to do, the question I keep asking myself is, “Am I willing to be a beginner at anything new and be okay in the discomfort as I learn?”
